Your Freedom From Pain Has Nothing To Do With Money

And if you think it does, then this article is definitely for you.

I bet you’ve heard this one over and over again.

"…but I can't afford it,"

or
"I don't have the money (or time),"

or
"I don't see a way."

If you have ever thought or spoken one of these sentences, then whether you are realizing or not, YOU ARE shooting yourself in the foot.

If you truly wish for certain things in your life to get better, whether it’s your health, your wealth, your love life, or career life, then here is the bare truth.

It has nothing to do with money, although so many of us think it does.

Most of us do that all the time without even realizing it.

Can I give you my very best suggestion? It’s free. 🙂 

CATCH YOURSELF when you think it or say it and then STOP, even if you are in a middle of a thought or actually speaking it out loud.

What can you do instead?

You may think/say things like:

“I choose to invest my money somewhere else right now,”

or
“I prefer to put my time and resources into _____,”

or
“I know there must be a way for me to do this and I’m open for it to be revealed to me.”

You think you will not be speaking the truth?

It is the absolute truth!! If your life would depend on it and someone would ask you to get $10,000 or a $100,000 to find a way to pay them so you can save either yours or your loved one’s life, you would find a way to do it. But when things are not so pressing, we tend to buy into our own excuses and play small, thinking we do not have the money to get what we want.

Do you think you know how to recognize a good opportunity to free yourself from pain when it is right in front of you?

Many times, I offer free or very low cost to people who have expressed interest in my services. But because they are too preoccupied with seeking and looking for answers, they are not allowing the missed opportunities (miss=don’t see). Those that are open to receive, are so allowing, that the moment I do something special, they are right on it and they move closer to achieve what they desire.

They say that healing comes to those who ask and if you have learned a thing or two about the law of attraction, then you know by now, that the law is just asking what is important, that’s the first step. There are two more steps. The second one is allowing and the third one is receiving.

So if you ask for something to be resolved in your life, let’s say that you have a health issue that you were not yet able to resolve, but you know and believe that there is a way for you to resolve it. So you are ask for a solution, an answer, a person, a remedy, a book, a movie, whatever, right? You ask to free yourself of that issue. Great!! Nice job on the first part.

The 3 golden steps to achieving what we want:
Asking * Allowing * Receiving

So now you are reading books, attending lectures, downloading an audio online, and so forth. You are starting to become aware that solutions might be just in front of the tip of your nose. Now let’s see how well you are allowing it. Are you just learning about the solutions or are you allowing the solutions in? Are you allowing them to actually help and support you?

Ah…it costs money. A lot of money and your insurance is not covering it. You have to pay out of pocket. So then you say – nope, if insurance is not covering it then I’m going elsewhere to look for something cheaper or more affordable.

Now, once again, you are back to square one – asking. This cycle can go on and on for years. You never allow and you never receive and meanwhile, you are in physical and emotional pain. What a shame, don’t you think?

And how do you know you are in this vicious cycle? Here it is:

  1. Listen to your thoughts and words you speak. If they are blocking you, that means you are blocking yourself. Like I mentioned in the beginning of the article, “I don’t have…,” “I can’t….”, “I don’t know how.”
  2. Refuse to think or speak that way! Start thinking in ways that will open your path, not close it, like, “How can I come up with the money?” or start affirming, “Thank you for sending me all the money I need for _____.”
  3. Take the next step to help yourself move forward. Simply ask, “What’s my next step?” Be silent (yep, learning to meditate will be the best gift you can give to yourself). So for example, you asked for someone/something to show up in your life to help you resolve your issue. Someone show up. You like how they work, you really want to work with them. You hear their fees, you would rather it cost less, but it doesn’t. Clarify to yourself, why you wish to get their help, make all the other excuses in the world besides the money excuse as it will blind you and you won’t be able to see the truth of what is really holding you back in taking the next step.

My personal story below will shed more light for you on how I did it.

A few years ago, I was looking for a coach that would help me get to my next level. I met a woman and I was seriously contemplating working with her. On the surface, I felt that she may be the right one for me, but I had some doubts. She did request high dollars and I had no clue where I was going to get the money to pay her, but I decided that I would figure that one out.

So I thought long and hard and decided to go for it. As I was sitting together with my husband, we looked at where we were financially and suddenly the picture became clearer and we could see a way for me to pay for her services.

But something still felt a little bit off. So I turned to the higher world by going within. By clearing my thoughts and letting go of all the decisions, the blocks, the not knowing. I simply breathed in and out for about 20 minutes. Just made some room for new thoughts to take place and bring with them a solution.

I realized that I was scared to take the next step. Scared, because I was afraid as I’d put this big chunk of money down. It wasn’t so much about that lady’s services, whether she had what it takes to take me where I wanted to go, it was more about whether I had it and was I ready. And if I had my doubts, I’m more likely going to bring my doubts into the process with her and I absolutely did not want to enter this coaching journey with these kinds of doubts.

So I realized that it wasn’t about money, after all, I had figured out a way to pay for this coaching package. And I’m glad I was able to separate between the money aspect of it and the rest.

Most people don’t do that. They ask how much something costs and if it is a stretch for them, they conclude with, “That’s too much,” “We can’t afford it,” or “What? How much? ….,” or something along that line.

I was actually happy for the coach that was charging the amount that she was, good for her, if that’s how she valued herself, that’s awesome.

So what was I to do with those doubts? I went again into a short silence, within, breathed, and got clarity. I knew that was exactly what stood in my way, my own doubts, which were not even my own. Maybe it started somewhere as a child, probably even before I came into this world. Growing up, no one really believed in me. I had to carve my own path with a machete, to connect to that part WITHIN MYSELF that believed in me. It took years to shed off the conditioning layers and that experience was another opportunity to let it go, let the lack of belief in myself, or the doubts that something that I wanted to work, would work.

And with that decision, I contacted the lady coach and said, “I’m ready; can you please send me the contract so I can go over it and be aware of what is required?” 

Her response was that she would send the contract after I paid her and that totally lit a very, big, red, light bulb in my head.

What? First, I purchase the deal and only later I’ll learn the terms? It was absolutely ridiculous to me and that indicated that even though she may know a lot and she may guide others to success, she just killed the deal. That is not the right way to do business and I do business with honesty and integrity where both sides are choosing to enter the engagement and not forced or bound without knowing what to expect.

I got my lesson and I knew that the next person I’d attract, I’d know that I was entering the relationship by leaving my doubts outside the door and soon enough my next coach showed up. She did not have a contract at all, I was puzzled, but she trusted the universe…I did work with her for a year. That year my 21-Day From Pain To Freedom FB challenge was born (I run it now about twice a year. If you wish to join the next one click here), my 5 Weeks To Emotional Well-Being online program was born (just be sure you are on my list and you’ll be notified about the next one. Click here to join my list).

I’d love to read your comments. Please share with me how this article moved you.

You may apply for a complimentary consultation as soon as you are ready at www.sigalzoldan.com

Wishing you many blessings and much love and may you experience freedom, health, prosperity, happiness and love, every day you are living on this earth.

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Sigal Zoldan 
Your Guide From Pain To Freedom.

Founder of Infinite Realities International –
Holistic Healing

Sigals' services include:
Forensic Healing, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Results Coaching,  Foot & Handwriting Analysis, The Grinberg Method, Past Life Regression, Reiki, NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programing) Neurological Repatterning and Essential Oils. To learn more about Sigal and her work visit
 www.sigalzoldan.com

DISCLAIMER: This blog and it's content does not purport to offer any medical, psychological, therapeutic, religious, or other professional advice to users. The purpose of IRI programs, audios and diagnostic tools is for Vocational or Avocational Self-improvement. Participants are responsible for their own actions and results. Information provided within this program is of a general nature and is designed for educational purposes only. This information is not intended to replace "traditional" mental health counseling/therapy services. If you have questions or concerns about your physical and/or mental health, please contact your family physician and/or licensed mental health professional in your area.

Daily Spiritual Practice – Part 2 – Transferring Unwanted Energy Into a Rock

I have a good friend and Sjaman teacher by the name of Orit Bornstein. I am currently studying/receiving with her, the Munayi Ki Intiation Rites. A few weeks ago, Orit was giving a lecture here in San Fernando Valley and after the lecture I was hanging out with her and also with another healer.

As the other healer expressed that she was trying to get rid of an energy that she feels is holding her back in her life, one of Orit's suggestions was to tranfer that energy into a rock and let the rock hold that energy for her. I am very drawn to Shamanism and so was excited about this new, simple and easy-to-implement tool so I decided to incorporate it in my daily practice and as I always do, give it my own variation.

In this video, I'm sharing how to do this short and powerful ritual. I hope I can pass this along to you and contribute to your own physical, emotional, energy, and spiritual healing journey.
 

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Daily Spiritual Practice – Part 1 – Sageing

Having a daily spiritual ritual is as important as taking a shower or brushing our teeth. It is especially important when we are super-busy, stressed or overwhelmed. And I'm not talking only about meditation or prayer. Those are definitely wonderful, yet there are many different kinds of rituals that you can incorporate into your daily spiritual practice.

In the next coming blogs, I will share with you some of the rituals that I do daily (and there are more than what I'm sharing). I picked the most simple and easy-to-implement so you can get started right away.

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What I Use Instead Of Sugar That Is Healthy and Sweet

I moved to the US from Israel in 2004. Shortly after, I started to notice that the clothes I came with no longer fit me.

I was always skinny and this was a shock to me!! My clothes were always big and I needed a seamstress to adjust any store bought clothes. Soon after that happened, I started my hypnotherapy training and learned more about sugar.

The sugar epidemic. It was EVERYWHERE and in almost every food and beverage I had put into my body. Not only that, I discovered that it was even in cigarettes. Did you know that? I hope you are not a smoker, but for those that are smoking – they have a couple of challenges to face: the addiction to nicotine, the addiction to the (hidden) sugar, the behavioral aspect of smoking, and the psychological ones. But that's another topic…  

With Green Dress-White RightThis is me in 2006. I'm not that skinny any more. 🙂 I don't even have this dress as I needed to pass it on to someone else…

Even though I prefer salty snacks than sweet ones, I did desire sweets from time to time and after what I've learned I knew that I needed to reduce my sugar intake. The truth is that there was another reason why I needed to get sugar out of my life. Stay tuned as I will devote another article for my personal health story.

There are a few healthy sugar replacement products available for us. I'm not a fan of stevia. I don't like the flavor that it leaves in my mouth, so for me that one was not an option.

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One Simple Tip That Can Help With Sugar-Cravings


What I'm about to share with you is just the tip of the iceberg, but we all need to start somewhere, right?

There is a great essential oil blend that I like using that can support you when it comes to sugar-cravings, weight issues, and a few more things. It is a metabolic blend.

What's in it and how can you benefit from it?

This blend Metabolic Blend-w plantscontains five wonderful essential oils that each play an important role, especially when we are dealing with sugar cravings, but it also helps with other issues as well.

When combining these essential oils into one single blend, they target very specific issues related to cravings, metabolism, mood, appetite, and they even address emotional issues, like feelings of worthlessness, feeling ugly and thinking that in order to look a certain way, one needs to deny themselves pleasure and stick to a strict diet. 

Here are the five essential oils and the different ways they support us. Continue reading

The Sweet Substance That Will Make You Feel Good Now Can Also Make You Sick Later

Click on the video to view full article.

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Wishing you many blessings and much love and may you experience freedom, health, prosperity, happiness and love, every day you are living on this earth.

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Sigal Zoldan 
Your Guide From Pain To Freedom.

Founder of Infinite Realities International –
Holistic Healing

Sigals' services include:
Forensic Healing, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Results Coaching,  Foot & Handwriting Analysis, The Grinberg Method, Past Life Regression, Reiki, NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programing) Neurological Repatterning and Essential Oils. To learn more about Sigal and her work visit
 www.sigalzoldan.com

DISCLAIMER: This blog and it's content does not purport to offer any medical, psychological, therapeutic, religious, or other professional advice to users. The purpose of IRI programs, audios and diagnostic tools is for Vocational or Avocational Self-improvement. Participants are responsible for their own actions and results. Information provided within this program is of a general nature and is designed for educational purposes only. This information is not intended to replace "traditional" mental health counseling/therapy services. If you have questions or concerns about your physical and/or mental health, please contact your family physician and/or licensed mental health professional in your area.

If you missed PART-1 CLICK HERE

The Sweet Substance That Will Make You Feel Good Now Can Also Make You Sick Later

I hope you have enjoyed Part 1 of this video series with Dr. Raymond Francis, the author of the blog, "Never Get Sick Again." If you haven't yet watched it, be sure to watch the first video – first. Just click here and a new window will open up for you. 🙂

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It is essential that we keep our health in excellent shape. Don't you think? Dr. Raymond Francis, the author of the book, "Never Get Sick Again" has been sick only once in the last 26 years. I find it very inspiring and impressive. I was curious to know what is it that he does so I can reach his age and beyond in good health and with great energy.

Dr. Francis mentions in this video, the one thing that we can all do that can make a big difference in our health. You may guess what it is or it may be a new piece of information for you.

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The Solution To Your Problem May Be Right In Front Of You – Don’t Miss Out On It.

I’ve seen many people asking and seeking for solutions to their problem to show up. Sometimes, weeks, months, and even years pass by before a good and satisfying solution will show up.

Why is that?

It's because the biggest problem that most of us face when we have a problem is that we are so consumed and focused on the problem. So much so, that even when a solution is showing up, we are NOT available to even notice that it has shown up.

And that's where we spend precious time, money, and energy on the problem.

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How To Stay Strong When Things Are Not Flowing Well

Lately, I've been chatting and connecting with more people in-person. People that are my followers, subscribers to my newsletter, and people who I'm connected with on FB. Maybe you were even among them.

In my conversations, I've learned that many are going through a hard time. Some are facing minor or more acute health issues, some are having financial challenges where no money is coming in, and some are going through turmoil with relationships. 

And some are just fine, but people around them are having difficulties.

Sick relatives and animals, changes at work, or feeling stuck and things are just not moving. There is a reason why we feel that way a few times a year. And I will get to it in a moment.

Some people react to these kind of challenges with stress and worry and by doing that, they start having challenges of their own.

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