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The Habit Of Letting Go Of What You Do Not Need.

Sigal Zoldan — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 21:11:44 +0000

Every week on Monday morning I deliver a new session as a part of my weekly program The Way. On our call from Aug. 16th I shared with the members how they can get into the habit of Letting Go Of What You Do Not Need.
Why is it even worth it to let go of what you don’t need? and what does it have to do with your business?

Well, when working with the subconscious mind, there are obviously aspects that are hidden from us, aspects that we are not conscious about, and once you become aware of what those aspect are, you can clearly see that they have a great deal to do with where you are today in terms of your business, finances and overall success.

So I’d like to share with you a bit of what I shared on this session:

There is stuff, physical things in your space, that you do not need. It might be things that once you used and now you don’t, or things that are "souvenirs" of some sort that are just occupying space, things (like papers) that you mean to file or take a look at, but you never get to do so. All of those have energetic vibrations, all of those are affecting you without you being aware of what they are doing to you, how they might hold you back.

When you look at your life and your business from a holistic point of view, you cannot afford to have things in your space that don’t support your growth, create momentum, or allow you to thrive.
You may acquire expensive training, hire great coaches, take significant actions, but as long as there is an area that you neglect, that area is the one that can take everything that you build and cause it to stay stagnant and you frustrated.

As we all know things carry emotions for us. Every physical thing that we have in our a space have a story.
Recently, we sold on eBay our cellersizer (rebound machine). We used it for a couple of years and in the last year or so both my husband and I are exercising outside of our home. Since we both work from home we realized that it’ll be better for us to not exercise at home. After making that adjustment we didn’t really make the adjustment in our physical space and in a way the cellersizer was stuck there. Then every time I passed by it, it bothered me even on a conscious level, and we decided to let go of it, because we didn’t need it anymore.

So let’s move to some solutions here. There are a few questions you’d want to ask yourself in order to start and get into the habit of letting go of what you do not need.

Which area in your home causes you
to feel aggravation?

Which feeling do you experience when
you take a look at that area?

What are the physical objects that cause you
to feel that way I feel?

And please, don’t overwhelm yourself. I am sure you’ll find that there is more than one area, but I recommend you start with the one that aggravates you the most, because by letting go (or more likely de-cluttering) that area, you’ll feel so much better, so much. And when you feel better, you have more motivation to do what needs to be done in your business and daily life, you can breathe, you can have space, emotional and physical space.

Let me give you an example:
The area that I feel the most aggravated by is my office.
The feeling that I feel is overwhelm and lack of focus.
The physical objects are the papers, sticky notes and pile of papers that seem to be an integral part of my office.

OK, so you clarified that, now you want to open your planner and schedule a block of time in which you will de-clutter, put in shape, and especially let go of what you don’t need.

Please come back to my blog and place a comment, let me know how you feel and what has opened up for you as a result of letting go of what you do not need.

Oh.. and make sure to put on some music that you really like when you are doing that, so you can also enjoy the process.

The Habit Of Converting Negative to Positive

Sigal Zoldan — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 15:08:38 +0000

We all have those negative thoughts that creep in. Even though you might have meditated today, slept well, even exercised, negativity awaits in the corner like a good old loyal friend that is always there for us (like it or not). So if we would look for a moment at negativity as a friend (just for a moment) then maybe, just maybe, there is a reason why this friend is always (or almost always) there for us.

In my work and personal evolution I have bumped into many moments that I have perceived as negative. We are meaning-making machines, and, since we are, why not choose a meaning that is more positive and empowering?

As I was going through my NLP training in 2007, I learned a profound way to shift one’s thinking. I am not talking here about "positive thinking" but about "neurological repatterning". Meaning that the simple technique I am going to share with you (and you’ll be flabbergasted by how simple it is), actually shifts the neurology in our brain because of its intimate connection to our thought processes, to our feelings, to our motions and movements, even to the very words we choose to use.

I want to show you how to do this but first I’d like to share with you a little story.

There was a time that I felt ready for my husband to propose to me. I spent time in resentment and frustration because he didn’t, and the way the thought appeared in my mind was:

“It is taking him too long”

So I used this conversion technique that I am about to show you, and started to come up with ideas of how I could give it a different meaning, and here is what came up:

"He wants to stay with me for the rest of his life
so he is preparing himself for that”.

“He loves me so much and he is preparing
a very special proposal for me”.

About 3 weeks after I did this conversion technique,
I got a proposal from my wonderful guy.
It was on a hot air balloon in Snowmass, Colorado.

(The 3 pictures above were taken on July 4th 2007. The view was asstoning, the ride was magical. It was the two of us and the pilot, John. The other hot air balloon was another group that was flying close to us)

Later on my husband shared with me that he made the decision to propose to me in February, but because he wanted it to be so special he preferred to wait and propose in July when we would have our vacation in Snowmass-Colorado.

I was amazed not only with how much this conversion technique allowed me to be at peace in the present moment, but also to manifest such a reality that, in a way, was even better than my dreams.Two dreams came true in one day. The flight in a hot air balloon and the marriage proposal.

The Engagement Ring.

The ring was designed especially for me with the infinity sign
(the name of my business is Infinite Realities, Inc….)

OK, so here is the conversion technique:

The way to do this conversion technique is to use it as a replacement, meaning every time that your mind goes to the negative, you ask yourself:

"What’s another way of looking at this?”
(That is more positive)

When we have more options, we know where to go. Our mind knows where to go. When we don’t have options we don’t know what to do, so we go to the default, and if the default is negativity, then we visit it too often.

If you are not sure how to convert your negative thoughts, then let this blog be your platform in learning how to find another way to look at the same thing but not through glasses of negativity.

Feel free to post here a sentence that describes the negative "thing" (just one sentence, not a story. Take a look again at the example I gave above), and I will offer you a few options that will shift your mind to think a different way.

Good luck and enjoy the shift.

Positive Affirmation – Is it really that simple?

Sigal Zoldan — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 01:06:56 +0000

Yes it is!! But there is a little secret that you must know. The secret is in how to use an affirmation in an effective way. Not every affirmation will do the trick, and even if you’ll jump high and scream loader it still might not work. There is a big difference between feeding your conscious mind with affirmation vs. your subconscious mind and when you don’t know the difference you might do the work but not see results (To learn more about the difference click here).With affirmation it is all about reprogramming.

There are a couple of things I’d like to share with you that will make the use of affirmationst so simple for you and above all will allow you to enjoy your manifestations sooner than later (or not at all…).

The first thing is
KEEP IT SIMPLE!

And this is what I mean by that:
If you’ll focus just on one affirmation vs. trying to change your whole life with many affirmations at one time, there is a greater chance that it will work for you!!

Think of it like a laser beam. If you project a laser beam into one specific location and you keep it there for a few seconds, the laser beam will cut through it. (watch the power of a laser beam)

The same thing with focusing your mind on a single powerful affirmation and projecting it to your mind at a very specific time (more about the time below) and in a very specific way.

I’d like to share with you the affirmation that Marla designed for herself (based on the guidelines she downloaded here) and the results that occurred for her:

The affirmation:

"I trust the adequate job for my needs is revealed to me and acquired by me."

Marla wrote this affirmation down every night as instructed for about 10 consecutive nights. In addition to that she kept sending a few resumes each day to different companies that she was interested in getting an interview with.

The Results:

Within less than two weeks Marla shared with me that she found what she was looking for. The hours, the flexibility, the distance from home, many variables worked for her. This affirmation came after 5 months of searching for a job that will both fit her needs and pay according to her expectations. Marla actually got more than what she imagined besides that Marla got a mentor that will guide her personally how to model his system so Marla wouldn’t need to go through too many loops while getting into her new role.

So you see, Marla understood the power of a single affirmation. She followed the simple steps (click here for the step) and she produces results.

So basically all you need to do is:

1. Think of something that you’d like to see changed in your life.

2. Write it down in the most concise sentence possible.

3. Rewrite it in a positive way, in the present tense and make it empowering (to learn more how to make it empowering click here)

4. Just before going to sleep (why? Click here) write the affirmation you designed with your non dominant hand (why? Click here).

5. Repeat the process for the next two weeks (unless what you wrote has already changed and now you can move to a new affirmation).

Enjoy, and please come back to share
with me how it worked for you.

Try It At Home – Practical & Simple Technique To Attract…

Sigal Zoldan — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 23:23:25 +0000

You name it…What do you want to attract?

Infinite amount of prospects?
Strong Business Builders?
A Spacious House?
When it’s a law it works in every area.

After you watch this video let me know what happened to you when starting practicing this technique. I am really curious to hear what took place…. Make a good use of it, be consistent and change the world around you for the good.

More than once I have been inspired by this message. So many people are familiar with the Law Of Attraction, but yet they are struggling and not achieving what they want, they are frustrated and create more frustration for themselves. WHY??? Some will say because of The Law of Attraction and I would agree. And when it comes to the practical reality it’s because of – HABITS. We all have habits, we are like little robots that only pain or a strong desire for pleasure is waking us up from this unconscious-hypnotized state.

…wishing you Powerful Habits Of Success.

Sigal Zoldan
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