Fear, Pain, and Other Friends

No one really likes to experience pain or fear. And emotions or feelings like anxiety, sadness, loneliness, boredom, and other similar “friends,” as I like to call them, are not our favorite either, right?

So why are they all here? Have you ever given it a thought?

I have a friend that cannot stand going to get a massage and have the massage therapist press a little too hard. She can’t stand it. For me on the other hand, if the massage therapist is not pressing deeply, I don’t feel that I got a massage.

Massage preference

Pain, fear, and other friends are here to teach us something about ourselves. Whether we like it or not, they show up in our lives, physically and emotionally. We do not consciously invite pain, but we definitely invite pain subconsciously. And we do that so we can pay attention to certain things our physical and emotional body is signaling to us and so we can heal.

When we embrace the perspective that pain and fear are here to teach us something, we can also take control and lead our lives in the direction we desire.

Are You The Kind Of Person That Is Looking For A Quick Pill To Solve Your Pain, Ache, Or Discomfort?
How Has That Been Working For You?
Maybe It’s Time For Another Way!

prescription drug abuse

When I was 26, it was time to say goodbye to a beloved boyfriend that I was with for six years. We simply knew that as much as we love each other we got to a point where we needed to split in order to grow and evolve. It was a peaceful separation but involved the pain of needing to say goodbye. At that time I also had moved from Jerusalem to Tel-Aviv, started a new job in an architectural firm, became single again for the first time as a grown up, and I was literally shaking from fear in light of all of these unfamiliar territories.

It was no surprise that I developed this pain in my knees. At first, I thought it was due to a new exercise I was doing but after starting to work with a practitioner in the Grinberg Method, I’ve learned that the pain in my knee was related to my fears.

Soon enough, as I was working through my fears, settling down in a new city, a new job, and back into the dating world, the pain in the knees went away.

There Is Wisdom Within Us. We Are Wired With That Mind, Body, and Soul Connection.
We All Can Heal.

The video below was recorded at an Abraham-Hicks Workshop. Listen to the health concerns of this lady as Abraham's replies. (Abraham – a none physical group of beings who are channeled by Ester Hicks)

It is all designed in such a divine way to show us where attention is needed. Where we do something that is not good and healthy for us, and where we need to implement change.

The tricky part is being able to read and identify what the body, mind, and/or soul is trying to signal us. And sometimes we do need to seek the help of others.

Back in 2000, a new client came to see me after suffering for five years with migraines. She had tried many different modalities to get relief from the migraines and she did get some relief, BUT the migraines never went away.

It took one short foot analysis to find out where her migraines were coming from. The pattern that her feet showed was that she was not confronting a close person in her life. She immediately said: “Yep, it’s my mom. I don’t want to hurt her so I don’t say what I am thinking to her.” Wow! So instead, she was holding all that energy inside, getting angry and irritated internally. And being the good person and daughter she was, she “chose” unconsciously to hurt herself by keeping it all bottled up inside her, not even thinking, this behavior was creating her migraines.

Within a few sessions she became more assertive, found her true voice and was able to communicate with her mom in respectful ways, without guilt, without hurting her mom, and also keeping her own internal peace.

source of resistance

Many, many times the answers to our pains, fears, anxieties, and what I call “other friends” is simple. You can train yourself to read the signals, to get deep answers and free yourself from physical and/or emotional pain, you can also get help if you wish to speed up the process.

So if you are eager and want to take action immediately towards better health and well-being, and you are ready to clear the blocks that may be standing in your way to feel better today, click here, watch the short video and follow the steps so we can get together on the phone for just a “getting to know each other” conversation to see if I can be of help. 

Please feel free to leave your comments and what did you like about this post.
Meanwhile, many blessings and much love to you and may you experience freedom, health, prosperity, happiness and love, every day you are living on this earth.


Sigal Zoldan 
Founder of Infinite Realities International- Holistic Healing
Clinical Hypnotherapist, Master Results Coach
 & Forensic Healer

Sigal incorporating these modalities in her practice: Foot & Handwriting Analysis, The Grinberg Method, Past Life Regression, Reiki, NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programing) Neurological Repatterning, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Forensic Healing and more. To learn more about Sigal and her work visit www.sigalzoldan.com

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Fear, Pain, and Other Friends — 4 Comments

  1. Thanks for visiting Dr. Sachin. And thank you for sharing about the fact that pain killers medications would not help with a psyco-somatic pain. I think that many people who take medication have no awareness of this fact.

  2. Great article Sigal. I agree that we invite pain subconsciously, that’s why we see lots of people who feel pain but medical science not able to find anything pathological. Usually we call it as Psycho-Somatic pains. These kind of pain does not get relived by pain killers while it needs strong mindset to conquer these pains. Connection of mind, body and soul is a real thing.

  3. I don’t know if I can see a different therapist who has more time or not. I wanted to see her because I was comfortable with her, it’s really hard for me to click with a therapist. I guess I’ll have to wait and see when she does have anything available and if it’ll work for me or not.

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