How do you know that you are truly ready for healing? Is it enough to have the desire to heal? Or are there other things that are a part of the true healing equation?
More than once in my life I have wanted to resolve my pain, ache, and discomfort. And I’ve done a lot of things to try and break through the same old same thing.
Today, after almost two decades of working with people in-person and long-distance, as well as my own personal experience, I can confidently say that having the desire to heal is just one piece of the healing puzzle; a very important piece, but still just one piece.
A Desire Is One Piece That Allows All The Other Pieces To Come Into Place, BUT It’s Not Enough Just To Have A Desire. One Must Also Be Open To Receive What He/She Is Asking For.
Throughout the years, clients have sought after my healing services. Before I take any client on, however, I make sure that he or she is ready to heal.
How do I know if they are ready? I ask very specific questions that will help both of us determine that.
When I identify that someone is not ready yet, I guide them to what they can focus on in the next period of time so that they can achieve their desired outcome and experience true healing.
When There Is A Desire,
A Path Has Already Been Paved.
That’s why I like to start with a complimentary healing consultation, it allows both the client to understand how I work and it allows me to find out if I can help. Also, if it’s the right time and whether we are a good fit for one another.
I have encountered more than once, situations where people really wanted to heal, yet their level of commitment to themselves for their own healing (regardless whether I am the right person to help them or not) was not at a level 10 commitment.
The reason in many cases was because they have already tried so many different ways to find solutions and they haven’t as yet, so they’ve lost hope, faith, and belief. Yet a part of them still seeks, still knows, that somewhere near or far, there is a solution for them, too.
Do You Have One Or Two Excuses That You Come Up With When You Seek Healing And Help Is Not Showing Up?
Then come the excuses. Excuses like: “I don’t have time, I’m travelling, I prefer to see someone in-person and not over the phone or Skype, I don’t have the money, I can’t afford it right now, I’m looking for someone who takes insurance, I need to think about it.”
Does any of this sound like someone who is committed and is ready? Do they?
It sounds like fear is talking. And it is. It’s the fear of the unknown, which I’ll tell you more about in a moment.
When I sense that someone really wants to heal, and they are truly looking for the right support, the right person, the right modalities so they can release whatever is standing in their way to heal; I guide them to first give a thought as to how much they want to receive help so they can move forward. I suggest they don’t think about the details, the money, the time, the energy, etc.
Why? Because when the excuses are getting a front row seat, it is hard to see beyond them. It’s like sitting in a theatre trying to watch the screen and having three tall people sitting in the row in front of you and blocking the view.
First, you want to say, “YES” to yourself. So when you are seeking someone to help, for a support system that will lift you up, push you forward, and clear the baggage that interferes with your healing, you want to make sure you put all your excuses aside. They will come up, I promise you. And the reason they will come up, is because as much as we want the positive change, we are all designed by nature to stay the same. The same is familiar. The same is secure, known, and safe. Yep, even the pain, we know it’s going to wait for us, so we know what to expect. And that gives us a sense of being in control.
As Human Beings, We Don’t Do Very Well With The Unknown. We Get Into A Fight Or Flight Mode And This Mode Threatens Our Survival.
The excuses are coming to “protect” us so we can stay the same; it’s a subconscious mechanism that we need to be aware of when we want, yearn, desire, and expect change.
After you’ve dealt with the excuses and you’ve given yourself a, “Hell, Yes,” then the “how” will be found. There is always a way. Your desire is the fuel that will give your rocket its launching power, and your decision and commitment to yourself will keep the rocket moving forward.
If you find yourself thinking: “Yes, I found a way to get the kind of help I was looking for but ______,” take the “but” out and shift it in such a way that it doesn’t block you.
For example: “Yes, I found a way to get the kind of help I was looking for, but they are not accepting health insurance, and I was really hoping my health insurance could pay for it.”
If you stay stuck that it must be through health insurance, you may be digging a hole for yourself. You are asking and receiving an answer and a solution. It’s not exactly how you envisioned it. And because you are not willing to let go of HOW your solution will come about, you keep looking and looking for it and are not allowing yourself to receive and be open to a solution which may be right under your nose.
So instead of blocking yourself, you can let go of your excuse and convert your excuse into something like this:
“Yes, I found a way to get the kind of help I was looking for AND I’m opening my path to be able to pay for it easily.”
“Yes, I found a way to get the kind of help I was looking for AND I’m allowing the universe to show me how I can have it.”
You want to guard against those excuses because as long as you hold onto them, there can’t be a change. Your excuses are simply your subconscious telling you that “you can’t” and is keeping you in a same “safe” place, with the pain, ache, or discomfort. You want to become SUPER-AWARE of your excuses.
You are welcome to apply for a complimentary healing consultation with me so can start walking the path of clearing the blocks that may be standing in your way to feel better today. Click here, watch the short video and follow the steps to apply.
Meanwhile, many blessings and much love to you and may you experience freedom, health, prosperity, happiness and love, every day you are living on this earth.